Recently, I came across a blog post claiming that “outdoor boudoir” doesn’t — and can’t — exist. There were a few arguments that I would argue are largely opinion with one based in fact. I will touch on all of them, but first I want to discuss the factual definition of boudoir used in the post. The argument hinged on the definition of the word boudoir, which historically refers to a woman’s private room. This critique struck a chord, not because I agree, but because it misses something deeper: the soul of what I believe boudoir photography really represents.
Let’s start with the origin and dictionary meaning.
The French word originated in the late 18th century to mean:
“sulking place”
According to Merriam-Webster, a boudoir is:
“a woman’s dressing room, bedroom, or private sitting room.”
And Oxford Languages defines it as:
“a woman’s bedroom or private room.”
These definitions are clearly depict a room where a person can be alone and have some personal space. I would make the argument that many of my clients find the outdoors is their private space. It’s where they can experience their emotions and reconnect with themselves. It was never just about the room itself, but it was about the feeling that room provided: safety, comfort, autonomy.
And that’s exactly why I believe outdoor boudoir is not only real — it’s essential.
The opinions about what boudoir
In the last section we addressed the matter of “where” boudoir can be done. The author of the article that sparked this post continued by saying there are two more elements to consider: why and how.
Why we do boudoir
The author argued that boudoir photography must be done is a way that capture intimate moments that are not meant to be seen by anyone else. Further stating that in an outdoor setting there are plenty of other potential onlookers. While I agree with the sentiment I disagree with the broader impact. This belief implies that a private place outside cannot exist. I would make the argument you may be more alone outside.
In our homes, there is so much technology that can be used to track our movements record our images and voices and more importantly distract us from experiencing the world that sits within arms reach. By stepping away and finding your hidden personal spot outside, you are experiencing more freedom to live the way you want. You are stepping away from the demand of the society we live in and for a moment you are able to be yourself.
I believe this freedom to exist on your terms is the best way to experience the intimacy we all crave, and as a result the best way to truly experience boudoir photography.
How we do boudoir
Once again I would agree with the author’s statement about lighting, but disagree with the final outcome. He claims boudoir must be done with simple and organic lighting. What could possibly be more simple, beautiful, and organic than the golden light of the rising or setting sun.
Sun light is simple. There is only one light source and the photographer moves around the person posing to create the desired lighting.
Sun light is beautiful. The golden light bathing the person and landscape is hard to beat and there’s no need for bulky equipment to maximize the beauty.
Sun light is organic. It rises and sets without the need for batteries. It produces different tones, intensities, and angles all without a trigger, extra batteries, or team.
Sun light is, in my opinion, the best lighting to use in any type of photography especially boudoir.
The Outdoors as a Boudoir
For many of my clients, and for myself, the natural world is the place we go to breathe, think, feel, and return to ourselves. A forest trail, a hidden desert canyon, a sun-dappled grove, or a quiet streambed offers the same sense of peace and freedom that the original boudoir was meant to provide. It may not have wallpaper or a velvet chaise, but it has the birdsong, the open sky, and the privacy of a secluded path.
A boudoir isn’t about being indoors. It’s about being home within yourself.
If someone feel most free under the open sky — if a mountain ridge or a meadow makes them feel more comfortable than any bedroom ever could — then that’s their boudoir.
Redefining the Space, Reclaiming the Power
In a modern world where we’re constantly connected, constantly visible, and constantly performing, stepping into nature can be the most radical act of self-ownership. Outdoor boudoir photography invites you to shed the expectations, the pressure, and the roles society puts on you — and to just be.
Whether it’s:
- a hidden garden that feels like your secret retreat
- a quiet stream where the world melts away
- a windswept cliff that reminds you of your strength
- or a sunlit grove that makes you feel soft, beautiful, and grounded
— these places are boudoirs. They are sacred, personal, and powerful.
A Final Thought
Outdoor boudoir doesn’t ignore tradition. It honors the spirit of it. It says: Your sanctuary can be anywhere. Your confidence, your beauty, your story deserve to be captured wherever you feel most like you.
So yes, outdoor boudoir absolutely exists. And for many, it’s the most authentic version there is.
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